“Thy Friend and thy
Father’s Friend forget not.”
The Poet Christina Rossetti, 1830-1894 was best known for her poem “Goblin
Market”, along with a number of romantic and devotional poems including the
Christmas Carol “In the Bleak Midwinter” as well as children’s poems. Her brother Dante Gabriel Rossetti, with
William Holman Hunt, John Everett Millais, and later Edward Burne-Jones and
William Morris formed the Pre-Raphaelite brotherhood that sought to return to
the simpler and more direct style of painting before Raphael. Christina Rossetti’s poem “Goblin Market”
reflects the Pre-Raphaelite return to nature inspired by the theories of John
Ruskin. The Poem, “Thy Friend and thy
Father’s Friend forget not” is part of a large body of her devotional poems,
and the title is drawn from the Book of Proverbs.
“Do not forsake your friend
and your father's friend, and do not go to your brother's house in the day of
your calamity. Better is a neighbor who is near than a brother who is far away”
(Proverbs 27:10).
“Thy Friend and thy Father’s Friend forget not.”
Friends, I commend to
you the narrow way:
Not because I, please God, will walk therein,
But
rather for the Love Feast of that day,
The exceeding prize
which whoso will may win.
Earth is half spent and rotting at the core,
Here hollow death’s heads mock us with a
grin,
Here heartiest laughter
leaves us tired and sore.
Men heap up pleasures and enlarge desire,
Outlive desire, and famished evermore
Consume themselves
within the undying fire.
Yet not for this God made us: not for this
Christ sought us far and near to draw us
nigher,
Sought us and found and
paid our penalties.
If one could answer “Nay” to God’s command,
Who shall say “Nay” when Christ pleads all
He is
For us, and holds us
with a wounded Hand?1
Thematically
the poem divides into four sections; the first, the human predicament and the
goal; second fallen creation and fallen creatures; third, God’s design for
humankind; and fourth, the irresistible offer of grace.
Section One:
Friends, I commend to
you the narrow way:
Not because I, please God, will walk
therein,
But rather for the Love Feast of that day,
The exceeding prize
which whoso will may win.
The
author calls us friends and commends to us the narrow way, “Enter by the narrow
gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and
those who enter by it are many. For the
gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are
few” (Matthew 7:13-14), but she immediately admits her inability to walk
therein. Having read a great deal of her
poetry I would say that her incapacity to walk in the narrow way is not from a
lack of desire, but from a keen sense that save for the grace of God she knows
that there is no good in her.
As a devout Anglican and Anglo-Catholic she would be very familiar with
the penitentiality and mood of the 1662 Book of Common Prayer. Collects such as the Collect for the Second
Sunday of Lent make our absolute dependence on grace very clear, “Almighty God,
who seest that we have no power of ourselves to help ourselves ; Keep us both
outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls ; that we may be defended
from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which
may assault and hurt the soul ; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen” (BCP
1662).
With her we acknowledge that we see the narrow way, recognize its worth,
yet recognise that apart from grace we cannot walk in it. Even with grace we discover and confess that
there are things we have done, and things we have left undone, that have not
only created pain for ourselves and others, but have also grieved the heart of
our loving Heavenly Father. We come as
penitents before the throne of grace trusting in the merits of Christ Jesus our
Lord, Who is Himself our Righteousness when we have none of our own.
We who have washed our robes in the blood of the Lamb are invited to the
Love Feast, the Marriage Supper of the Lamb, “Let us rejoice and exult and give
him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made
herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and
pure"- for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, "Write this:
Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb." And
he said to me, "These are the true words of God” (Revelation 19:7-9). To sit at table with Him Whom we adore in the
Heavenly Kingdom is the exceeding prize that we, forgetting what lies behind,
strain forward to win (Phil. 3:12-16).
Section Two:
We live in a world that has been corrupted by the Fall of
Humankind, and the
Earth is half
spent and rotting at the core,
Here hollow
death’s heads mock us with a grin,
Here heartiest laughter leaves us tired and sore.
Men heap up
pleasures and enlarge desire,
Outlive desire,
and famished evermore
Consume themselves within the undying fire.
The
dangers of this half spent earth rotting at the core are evident in the temptation
and fall theme in Goblin Market where the luscious fruits offered by the
Goblins lead to addiction and death.
Christina Rossetti herself was torn by the offer of love and ultimately
rejected her suitor Charles Cayley. Glenn Everett, Associate Professor of
English, University of Tennessee at Martin tells us that “From the early '60s
on she was in love with Charles Cayley, but according to her brother William,
refused to marry him because "she enquired into his creed and found he was
not a Christian." Milk-and-water Anglicanism was not to her taste” (The
Victorian Web: The Life of Christina Rossetti).
There is a choice: the
cruel but hard option of separating oneself from the half spent and rotting earth,
or being consumed by the internal undying fire, “And if your eye
causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of
God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell, 'where their worm
does not die and the fire is not quenched.'
For everyone will be salted with fire” (Mark 9:47-49). It should be noted that she distrusted
pleasure and desire, even desire for things that were permissible, at one point
giving up chess because she enjoyed winning so much (Everett).
Section Three:
Yet not for this
God made us: not for this
Christ sought us
far and near to draw us nigher,
Sought us and found and paid our penalties.
There is a
strong penitentiality in the 1662 Book of Common Prayer that is reflected in
Christina Rossetti’s spirituality and a number of her poems are penitential in
nature, yet she is clearly aware that God did not make us in order to have us
consume ourselves with undying fire.
Twice she repeats, “not for this . . . not for this.” No Christ went to the farthest extremes to
rescue his lost sheep. The psalmist
says, “Truly no man can ransom himself, or give to God the price of his life, for
the ransom of his life is costly, and can never suffice, that he should
continue to live on for ever, and never see the Pit.” and, “But God will ransom
my soul from the power of Sheol, for he will receive me” Psalm 49:7-9,15
RSV).
An Anglican
understanding of the work of Christ comes in part from St. Anselm, the Archbishop
of Canterbury from 1093 to 1109. “There is an apocryphal story told by St.
Anselm in a sermon at Bec: Justice and
mercy were arguing in heaven as they looked down upon the fallen world in the
year 1 B.C. Justice insisted that it should
be destroyed, for how else should his position be maintained? Mercy replied that, in that case, how could
his position stand? They were joined by
the divine Logos who, embracing them, said “leave it to me and I will satisfy
you both” (Martin Thornton, English Spirituality, (Cambridge: Cowley Press) p. 163). The 1662 Book of Common Prayer, quoting from
Holy Scripture, testifies that Christ “sought us and found and paid our
penalties.”
Hear what comfortable words our Saviour
Christ saith
unto all that truly turn to him:
COME unto me all that travail and are
heavy laden, and I will refresh you. S.
Matth. 11. 28.
So God loved the world, that he gave his
only-begotten Son, to the end that all that believe
in him should not perish, but have everlasting
life. S. John 3. 16.
Hear also what St. Paul
saith:
This is a true saying, and worthy of all men
to be received, That Christ Jesus
came into the
world to save sinners. 1 Tim. 1. 15.
Hear also what St. John
saith:
If any man sin, we have an Advocate with
the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; and he is
the propitiation for our sins. 1 S. John 2. 1.
Section Four:
If one could answer “Nay” to God’s
command,
Who shall say “Nay” when Christ pleads all
He is
For us, and holds us
with a wounded Hand?
There is
in the poems of Christina Rossetti the ardent response of a loving heart to the
pleading of the Christ who died for her.
There is for Christina Rossetti no passive hearing of the offer of
Christ. In another poem she writes:
GOOD FRIDAY
Lord Jesus Christ, grown
faint upon the Cross,
A sorrow beyond sorrow in Thy look,
The unutterable craving for my soul;
Thy love for me sufficed
To load upon Thee and
make good my loss
In the darkened heaven and earth that
shook:--
In face of earth and heaven, take Thou my
whole
Heart, O Lord Jesus Christ.2
Nothing
less than the Love Feast, the Marriage Supper of the Lamb will do, that is the
exceeding prize she seeks to win. The
gate of heaven is in the suffering and wounds of Christ. “O bone Jesu, exaudi me. Intra tua
vulnera absconde me. Ne permittas me separari a te” (The Anima Christi), “O
good Jesu, hear me, In your wounds hide me.
Do not permit be to be separated from Thee”.
The Cross is not the end goal, but rather it is the gate
of life. She prays,
O my King and my heart’s
own choice,
Stretch Thy Hand to Thy fluttering dove;
Teach me, call to me
with Thy Voice,
Wrap me up in Thy Love.3
1. Christina
Rossetti, The Complete Poems, ed. R. W. Crump & Betty S. Flowers,
(London: Penguin Books, 2005), p.410-411
2. Ibid, p. 436
3. Ibid. p. 415
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